December Energies – The Shift is Hitting the Fan!

December Energies – The Shift is Hitting the Fan!

The Shift in global systems we have been co-creating is here!

December is a big month of shift and transformation for everyone on the planet. We are collectively moving from the old ways of inequality and separatism into a state of working together for a common good.

That means, there’s a whole lot of cosmic shaking and quaking to be done!

Injustices will continue to come to light this month in the public arena regarding all forms of inequality, from systematic sexual harrassment and assault to financial abuse by governments and individuals.

As with any major shift that hits the fan, there is also an uprising of the “new” and True. This Truth is anything but new, but the value and priority it will have in our collective hearts and minds from now on is truly NEW!

So what does this look like on the ground for us energy sensitive sisters?

In general, there will be 3 types of experiences for us, depending on how fully we are living our calling.

For those (most of collective humanity) who haven’t embraced their calling yet, December will confront them with every opportunity to make that choice. The strength of resistance against their Truth and Divine Calling will equal the strength of the shift that hits the fan for them.

For you who have begun to follow your Divine Calling, even if it’s in infancy stages, you will experience an intense refinement of your path and purpose. You’ll be pushed out of your comfort zone, and offered every opportunity to grow! It may be uncomfortable, but the more you embrace it, the faster and more pleasant the transition will be.

And last but not least, those who are currently living their purpose fully… it has probably been a bit of a struggle for you, a test of courage and faith, and stretched you to the max! Prepare for a rocket blast of supportive energy, abundance, and the rewards of your hard work! This article/channel is meant to help you make the most of this shift, regardless where you are in your journey at this time.

The Angels, Archangel Michael and Archangel Ariel in particular, have some messages for us. I will try to deliver them as clearly as possible!

Archangel Michael: First, my beloved sensitive ones, please know that this shift and transformation is YOUR DOING.

Your hearts’ deep cries for truth, the strength of your prayers for the benefit of the world, and your committment to experiencing Oneness and joy within yourself has made this shift/transformation/healing possible world-wide! Please congratulate yourself on a job well done!

Second, I will ask you to be very mindful of what you expose your precious sensitive minds and bodies to during this shift. The urge to engage in drama and to “fix” what seems to be wrong in your world by controlling or ordering people and situations to do what’s right will be very strong throughout December, and over the next year.

It will seem like you are helping, but it will only tether you to those lower energies which are surfacing now for healing. The only healthy response is to give the situation love, give your worries, fears and frustrations to me, and let me protect your energy!

I will always guide you away from drama and negativity, and into the Light and support that you deserve, and that is available for you. So during December, when you feel Guided away from drama and negativity, know that it is Me, and it is safe to relax and let me help you.

I also ask you to be aware of the words you use, as they have collective energy embedded in them that may not be your intention.

For example, the common phrase “I just love you to death/to pieces” has loving intention, but the energetic weight of love causing death or dismemberment, or dissociation of the self is implied with the words.

Your languages (all of them) have many subtle and hidden realities within them. Be open to shifting your words, and I will help you make use of your language to co-create what you truly desire!

And finally, I ask that you spend less time consuming tv shows, news, or movies that aren’t positively uplifting and inspiring. This is not because we want you to hide away from what is happening in the world, but during this time, many of the things coming to Light are of the lower energies.

You already know about them, and have been praying and believing without cease that these injustices must come to light. This is the time when they must be seen, acknowledged, and healed.

Because you are such an integral part of this process, we need you to stay protected and free of the lower energies, the sadness and grief, shock and horror that arises as injustice is brought to Light. This is so you can play your role as helper, by staying clear and high-vibe, so those who are shifting can match your vibrations!

You are doing SO WELL! We are Infinitely proud of you, and we love you!

Archangel Ariel: Beloved, how kind and loving are you to yourself? This is directly affecting your experience of love, relationships, career, finances, and physical health.

We can hear that many of you are in a habit of talking down to yourselves, minimizing your brilliant ideas, questioning the wisdom we share with you, and in general, bullying the sh*t out of yourselves.

Naturally, this is not what we want for you, and we know it’s not what YOU want for yourself either. For that reason, we are drawing this to your attention during the month of December.

This month marks the start of a new cycle for you in your careers. How you react to the shifts in December and throughout 2018 will set the tone for the next 27 years.

This is why it’s so important to detach your identification with media, news, and collective stories. You are in a process of CREATING with the Universe/God and the Angels, and all the support is available for you to create bigger, more abundantly, and on a higher vibration than ever before.

It is TIME, dear sisters, to make a beautiful, comfortable, luxurious living while helping and healing the world.

Many of you have struggled to make ends meet from your spiritual work, or are too afraid to start living your calling, because you could not see how to make a wonderful income with it all.

We are here NOW to help you with this! It is our greatest wish that you allow us to “launder money” through you. The current energy of money in your world is indeed very low vibration. We would be blowing Angeldust up your arses if we told you anything else.

We ask that you receive as much money as possible, to bless and raise the vibration of the money energy, so that Spiritual Money Energy can take its rightful place. We see that most of you are inadvertently shoving away the money we are sending to you, because you refuse to participate in lower vibrational money.

For example, a client wants to pay you extra for the 20 minutes you spent explaining their reading, and you wave it away, affirming that you care more about their healing than about money.

We love your committment to being a clear channel of the Divine. Your service is appreciated, and celebrated in the Spirit realm, far more than you can know!

But your financial wealth and abundance IS a part of your health and wellbeing, and you must always respect your own health as much and more than the healing for your clients!

You are here with extraordinarily sensitive bodies, in a world that is still in process of raising its vibration. It is not easy to feel this, you knew that, and yet you agreed to be born with these gifts and awarenesses, despite the intensity!

The “perks” of the job are that you are GUARANTEED wealth that will support your physical, emotional and vibrational sensitivity. That means a spacious, high-vibe home and housemates.

It means sufficient money from a job or self-employment that utilizes your gifts in a way that is comfortable and relevant to you at this time! If you are not currently receiving your guaranteed benefits as a Lightworker, psychic, healer, or spiritual professional, NOW is the time!

Some of you may feel “pushed” into making decisions about moving forward in your calling, as if you are not ready. Remember that it is only the lower energies that would cause you to think that, and if you will give us (the Angels) permission, we will lift those worries and doubts FOR you.

We are sending you people whom we know you are suited to help. These people will pay you well for the help you offer. They may seem like a totally new kind of client, or like more of your favorites!

Rest assured that there is an Infinite supply of money for you, as well as an Infinite supply of people for you to help, who would like to pay you money, and allow you to launder their money from employment into a Spiritual Money Energy. In actuality, this blesses your client’s finances as well!

This is the way Spiritual Money Energy works – it benefits everybody!

Whether you paid money or received it, Spiritual Money Energy will always expand, with an energy of joy and lightness. We ask you to practice cultivating a relationship with money that will allow your WHOLE self to be healthy – not just your mind, your energy, your body, but also your finances!

The world needs you to be healthy. You DESERVE to be healthy.

The best way to do this is to roll up your sleeves and get started! Make a commitment to yourself and to us, that you will help those we send to you.

When you are guided to share about your gifts, know that it is us, nudging you, because someone we sent to you is within earshot!

Above all, ask us for help with anything that troubles you. Ask for money when you need or want it. Give yourself permission to have an expansive, light, happy life!

We love you so much, and want to help you expand in joyful service and financial abundance! You are an ESSENTIAL part of the Earth’s healing and evolution.

Call on us often. We will speak to you again soon!

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I hope you enjoyed these messages from Archangel Michael and Archangel Ariel, about the energies of December, and the massive call to live your life purpose in an abundant way!

I have been receiving these messages so strongly and insistantly for the last few days that I finally realized they weren’t just for me – Angels wanted me to share them with you!

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Money Magic for Empaths

Money Magic for Empaths

Money is a problem for most Empaths.

There are 3 main reasons for this.

1.  As sensors, we usually carry the strongest DNA Patterns of our family’s money imbalances. Whether your family is wealthy or struggles financially, you probably carry an energy signature about money that doesn’t fit YOUR true money energy.

2. Empaths are an advertiser’s wet dream. We are easily manipulated through emotions, so throw a puppy or a happy ending in the ad, and we’re sold! We also feel the lack emotions that others who watch the ad or see the products are feeling. AGH!

3. We see through the money manipulation, and we HATE it, even while we feel powerless to do anything about it. This often leads to a subconscious rejection of money as an entire system, creating dysfunctional energy cords.

Yet I believe we are truly the most qualified to handle money wisely.

Money is energy.

Energy is our JAM, as Empaths! So money should be no different. I get it, that’s not your everyday reality right now… and sometimes it’s not mine either. Like right now. My exact bank balance is $0.11.

But as an Empath who has learned to use my sensitivity to MANIFEST, I know that the emptiness in my bank account is for the purpose of expanding how much I’m willing to receive. And I feel zero panic.

What is this sorcery, you ask?

It’s Money Magic for Empaths! We can’t earn, make, create, or receive money in the same way the majority of humans do. It just doesn’t feel good, and it’s a half-assed use of our energy.

Principles of Money Magic for Empaths:

  • How you FEEL about money is how you will receive it. This means if you feel depressed about money, your pile of physical resources gets squashed. If you’re panicked about not having enough, emergent bills and disasters will show up to swallow every penny of panic money. (EEK!)
  • CHANGING how you feel about money will 100% change how much money can get to you. Joy is an energy of massive expansion, so joy about money flips the magnetism from money leaking out to money flowing in!
  • Your feelings are powerful creators. Use them wisely!

At every point, even when an advertiser is using emotional connection to sell you a product, you have a CHOICE about what you attatch to the emotional connection.

Will you join in with everyone who feels a subconscious and deep longing and lack, and frustration around money?

Or will you choose to connect your emotional energy directly to your Source of Abundance… the Infinite Universe?!

I have found that walking through a department store during the holiday season often induces panic attacks and very intense feelings of lack for myself and other Empaths.

Lack is a selling tool used by all marketers, year-round… including some Spiritual professionals, in order to prompt us to buy. It can reach overwhelming proportions here in the U.S. at Christmas, but it’s not always used inappropriately.

When someone points out that a service or product will benefit you, that’s a helpful use of “lack.” It simply points out an awareness, and offers it to you. It may be offered to you many many times before you see its value, but eventually you do, and your life improves.

Unfortunately, most marketing is aggressive in nature. It deliberately switches your emotional triggers in order to heighten or even falsely create your need for the product. THIS is the distinction we must have as Empaths in order to maintain clear and empowered use of our money energy!

One of the best ways to do this is to connect your feelings and emotions around money, a specific purchase, or a bill that needs to be paid, with your Future Self. Ask her what feeling SHE has about money, the item you want to purchase, or your rent payment.

Remember, your Future Self already exists, and she has 20/20 hindsight on your situation right now. She’s already been through it. Ask her for advice, and watch the Money Magic flourish!

And my own $0.11 bank balance? My Future Self is laughing and showing me how I had to empty the account so it could upgrade and hold more. MUCH, MUCH MORE!

I can be without panic because I FEEL my Future Self and the abundance she lives in. And my Future Self is becoming my NOW self.

So let’s take a leap of faith together, and make some Money Magic!

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10 Boundary Boo-Boos That Will Cost You (and how to fix them)

10 Boundary Boo-Boos That Will Cost You (and how to fix them)

Healthy energy boundaries are essential to your success in life and in your business.

That’s why having a boo-boo in your energy boundaries will cost you – energetically, financially, and even physically. ESPECIALLY if you have a Spiritual business.

Here are the Boundary Boo-Boos that cost you BIG-TIME.

1. BOUNDARY WALLS 


Many people subconsciously assume a boundary is a wall or a fence, designed to keep out a certain behavior, type of person, or energy. This invests your energy into pushing against what you do not want – and thus, you’ll always be face to face with it. OOPS!

This drains your energy quickly, defeats your sense of hope, and effectively isolates you from those who would like to help, since no one can get through a wall of energy without your permission.

You may think your “wall” is only for the clients and energies you DON’T want, so everyone else should be able to get through. This may be true, but too often, once the energy is invested in wall-building, the differentiation between friend and foe becomes fuzzier and the wall becomes more solid.

This costs you opportunity, networks, support, and creativity. These are the essential building blocks to success, so I’d say boundary walls rob you pretty hardcore.

Symptoms of a Boundary Wall Boo-Boo: You’re easily frustrated when you attract a client who’s not a good fit, and may spend a lot of time thinking about and clarifying who you don’t feel good about working with, and list many justifications for not working with them.

Yet your less than ideal client still calls… or your clientele has dried up and no one’s booked for weeks. A sense of dissatisfaction, boredom, or resentment with your work in another sign of boundary walls.

Energy Bandage: Think of your energy “wall” as a magnetic invitation to the CLIENTS and energies you DO want to experience. It is a far more fulfilling, joyful, and regenerating use of your energy.

Spend as much time as possible thinking about those clients you adore working with, and the ways you best like to work. Let yourself feel happy and excited as you imagine your energy inviting your ideal clients to experience empowerment, healing and comfort.

What about the ones you want to avoid?

With your energy field broadcasting an invite to your ideal clients and situations, lower energy interactions naturally drop away.

If a less desirable energy is present, you must be building a wall to hold it out. Switch the wall’s frequency to the energy you DO want, and watch it shift before you.

2.  “LIST OF RULES” BOUNDARY

Another common boo-boo is the idea that a list of rules for people to follow when they’re around you is a healthy boundary.What really happens is that you end up playing cop, running around enforcing your list of rules when people inevitably do or say the wrong thing.

A fear of losing control is a characteristic of the “list of rules” boundary dysfunction.

Your boundaries and rules may be very healthy in and of themselves, but the need to list and enforce them is a lack of trust that they will be respected.

This costs you time, energy and most of all, your sanity!

Boo-Boo Symptoms: Attracting clients who cancel last minute, don’t follow through on payment, and generally need a lot of “policing” to follow the flow of your business. Feeling like you have to “help them learn” to follow the rules, and resentment at the disrespect of your time, energy and money.

Energy Bandage: Affirm your trust in the Universe to take the boundaries you have set and hold them for you so that no one and nothing can “break the law” in your energy space.

The key here is applying trust and relaxing your body and energy so that the Universe can flow with all-powerful energy through and around you, enforcing your boundaries on your behalf.

Your clients will pay up immediately when you assign the Universe as your Bounty Hunter, and they will keep their commitments to you and themselves when you trust your commitment to your own boundaries.

3. EMPATHIC/COMMON SENSE BOUNDARIES

As highly sensitive and empathic women, we often assume that what we need and desire is “common sense,” or that others should be able to pick up the signs in our manerisms and energy. We are so in tune with others’ boundaries beyond what they say or request, that we expect others to do the same for us.Unfortunately, that’s not always a realistic expectation, unless you live in a psychic community, and even then, it’s certainly not a guarantee!

This boundary boo-boo is characterized by feeling like emotions and needs aren’t respected, and anger or frustration at not being seen/valued.

Mostly your cost is disempowerment. A clear, fully expressed need or desire is a healthy boundary, and the most powerful good you can do in the world!

Boo-Boo Symptoms: Clients may overload on you with energy or emotion. Having difficulty verbalizing boundaries means expecting the client to regulate how much they share rather than setting those boundaries clearly, placing you in the path of their personal shitstorm. No bueno.

You also probably have a hard time finishing a session on-time, because you are empathically signalling the end of the session, without verbally closing it out. You may also feel resentment towards self or clients with this type of boundary blurring.

Energy Bandage: Acknowledge that your may not be communicating your boundaries and needs clearly to others, and make an effort to effectively communicate those needs.

If this is difficult or induces anxiety for you, it is likely that you have had a boundary trauma, where expressing your desires and needs was met with an intense, negative response.

The nervous system then learned that having boundaries was dangerous, and your requests wouldn’t be respected.

You will need to do some extra re-programming of your energy, emotional, and nervous systems to fully shift the problem.

Please contact me if you want to know more about re-programming your energy, emotions and nervous system.

4. BOUNDARY VALIDATION

It’s not that you don’t have boundaries, it’s just you don’t always trust them. Are they too strict? Not strict enough? Are you helping people or hurting them?This is a boundary issue with CHOICE. Choice creates strong boundaries, and second guessing your choices puts your overall boundaries into glitch mode.

Worrying about making the wrong choice that will destroy your boundaries/client relationships/business actually turns off the energy forcefield of magnetic attraction that healthy boundaries are.

So Boundary Validation costs you by slowing down or stopping the process of receiving and experiencing money, clients, appreciation, value, joy.

Boo-Boo Symptoms: You often find yourself wondering if your boundaries are too strict and driving people away. Do your clients still like you?

When you create anything that means something to you (like your website, your healing sessions or readings, the name for the book you want to write) you ask your friends/partner/biz group their opinion.

On. Every. Freaking. Detail. Eleventy. Billion. Times.

We love you boo, but YOU gotta validate YOU!

Energy Bandage: Acknowledge that others’ opinions are helpful, but not essential.

When someone’s opinions matter more than your own, you have given them control over your boundaries, your energy, your LIFE! EEK!

It’s time to trust your intuition AND the way you follow it, and validate your own brilliant ideas!

If your idea/creation doesn’t feel brilliant, don’t ask anyone’s opinion. Dig deeper and connect to Spirit until you discover the gem you LOVE to show off in confidence!

5. JUDGMENTAL BOUNDARIES

Judging the things you don’t like/want as wrong is another way people set boundaries when it’s difficult to express what they really want or need.Criticism, moral superiority, and elitism can be direct or subtle ways to create a boundary to “keep out” what we do not want.

Obviously, this is not a fun boundary boo-boo to acknowledge you have, but I think we all play with this one a bit sometimes.

The cost is deep and painful. Whatever you judge in someone else gets heaped on you too in energy form, simply because you’re entertaining the energy of judgment.

Boo-Boo Symptoms: You find yourself thinking of your non-ideal client as not evolved enough to work with you, bashing other therapies/diets/beliefs as wrong or bad, refusing to associate with people/clients who aren’t acting the way they “should.”

This is spiritual ego at its finest, and it can get really ugly, dressed up in words of Love and Light.

Energy Bandage: Extreme self-honesty is needed here. Every judgment we have towards something external is actually a judgment of some part of self.

The solution here is to identify and lift the self judgment, so that we can love ourselves deeply enough that our needs, desires and boundaries express themselves naturally, no holding back.

6. FALSE BOUNDARIES

We’ve all known someone who sets a boundary, and does or expects something completely different. It’s maddening, isn’t it?

We’ve all done it too. Claimed we were on a diet, then bought ice cream… Told someone we would do something by Monday, then procrastinated and pushed it to Tuesday… the list goes on and on.

This pattern happens when you have an underlying expectation of your boundaries being challenged, blocked, or rejected. You go ahead and move your own boundaries before you can experience that difficulty.

The cost here is obvious. You’ll never feel satisfied, valued, or appreciated until you prioritize your own needs and desires for satisfaction, value and appreciation.

It can also happen in the reverse. You set a boundary for your new employee to “show up on time.” Yet your real expectation is that “on time” means 15 minutes early, and when they show up on the hour instead of 15 before, you penalize them.

Yes, this has happened to me. As the employee. On the second day of work.

What did that false boundary from my boss cost her? My respect, my trust, and my faith that we had a friendly relationship and common goals.

False boundaries are costly to everyone, no matter the situation!

Boo-Boo Symptoms: You set boundaries, and just as easily justify changing them, or expect more than was clearly stated.

For example:
You tell a client a package is $5,000 but because it’s the third Tuesday, the moon is half full, and you really like them, you’ll give them a 50% discount.

Your cancellation policy is 24 hours advance notice, but you let that client cancel for a “car accident” 15 minutes into every damn appointment, without penalty.

Energy Bandage: The only thing challenging and blocking your boundaries is your own expectation that it will happen.

Suspend your belief that the client will ask for a discount, or that the canceling client won’t pay/will get mad/won’t ever come back. Just for 5 minutes imagine that your clients (and everyone else, including yourself) honors your boundaries without saying a word. Imagine it until it happens.

And when it happens, your clients may even thank you for giving them such clear, easy to follow boundaries so they can work with you and honor your gifts.

7. MIRRORING BOUNDARIES

Sometimes your boundaries are GREAT, no problem, you let your clients know what you need them to do or not do, they say ok, all is well.Other times, your boundaries are non-existent. Clients walk all over you, every session goes over by half an hour, you forget to eat lunch, and you crash out.

Ooops, super sensi Empath… you’re mirroring the boundaries of the people you’re around! Take a look at WHO it is you have good boundaries with, and who you don’t.

When you’re on a call with a client who has great boundaries around time, they naturally wind the session up FOR you, and you never have to assert your boundaries, so it SEEMS like you’re doing a great job.

In fact, you’re seeing what it’s like to HAVE great boundaries… but you may not be holding the vibration on your own. You’re sharing it with your client.

Conversely, you may find you have great boundaries only with clients who obviously have an issue, and around clients with great boundaries, yours go out the window. This is the opposite/reverse mirror effect.

Mirror Boundaries cost you the power of choice in how much you make, how easily your time is valued, and how much you are appreciated for your contribution.

You’ll never feel satisfied when you’re mirroring someone else’s boundaries, because they’re naturally different than yours, even when they’re healthy.

I don’t know about you, but I want my income to be satisfying!

Boo-Boo Symptoms: Sometimes you’re on-point, boundaries are blazing, other times you feel like a doormat. Your boundaries are at the mercy of who you’re with.

You often don’t feel strong enough to stick to your boundaries (desires and needs) without someone else sharing the same boundaries OR to reflect off of.

Energy Bandage: When your energy boundaries are great, check and see if you’re sharing your energy of good boundaries with someone who has great boundaries!

If so, take it as a vibrational learning experience, and affirm your own healthy boundaries while intenting they be associated with the great feeling of boundaries you’re experiencing.

When your energy boundaries aren’t so great, take note of who else’s energy may be involved. If there is an issue of energy sharing, affirm your own healthy boundaries, while intending they REPLACE your current feelings of boundaries.

8. HALF-ASSED BOUNDARIES

Half-Assed Boundaries are fully formed on one level of awareness, but not agreed upon by all aspects of consciousness.

For example, logically you know that your prices are fair, and there’s no reason to worry your clients won’t pay. Yet people constantly ask you to discount your services, you feel sick about it all, and would rather avoid it.

Or perhaps you feel very strongly that a client or aquaintance isn’t being truthful, or is manipulating circumstances, but there is no logical proof, so you force yourself to trust them.

Half-Assed Boundaries often wound us doubly, because there is a wound from the situation where our boundaries are being infringed upon, and then on a deeper level, ourselves for not fully standing up for ourselves.

A great deal of self-forgiveness and loving compassion is necessary if you’ve been living with Half-Assed boundaries.

The real cost here is to your sense of self-value. When you hold back from going all-in on believing in yourself and your needs, desires and boundaries, every aspect of success takes a hit.

Boo-Boo Symptoms: You notice a physical sense of illness/anxiety around the problem, even when healthy boundaries seem to be in place. OR you over-rationalize the problem and feel embarrassment or weak over the emotional and physical sensations experienced.

Negative results despite positive attraction work are a symptom, as well as a rollercoaster of positive and negative results.

Energy Bandage: When setting a boundary, it must be agreed upon with the mental, emotional and intuitive/physical intellects.

This means set it in your mind, then bring it into your heart and refine it until it feels loving and freeing to the heart.

Then bring it into your root (hint: this is the part where we engage the FULL ASS) so that around your hips and butt you feel strong, stable and confident in this boundary.

Make a commitment that whatever you do you will choose this full body sensation of strong boundaries for yourself.

9. TRIGGERED

For some, setting the boundary is not a problem. But when the boundary is pushed, even inadvertently by someone loved and trusted, the response is an explosion.This is a Triggered Boundary.

The wave of emotional response to the boundary being pressed is often so intense that the boundary never truly gets communicated.

Instead the emotional response takes over, costing you relationships, opportunities, and ultimately, the easy, joyful flow of income.

Boo-Boo Symptoms: Your client/friend/partner/kid really knows how to push your buttons, and when your boundaries are being crossed, the response is purely emotional, usually fiery hot anger. It always ends ugly, with either you hurting, and the other person winning the boundary battle, or your emotions exploding.

Energy Bandage: This boundary trigger is never about the situation that’s currently happening. These responses are the effect of long-term and usually childhood boundary trauma that has never been emotionally resolved.

In order to stop the cycle and reclaim your power, it is essential to express the emotions of anger, resentment, panic and survival shock that you felt when someone in power didn’t respect your boundaries, minimized them, or exploded when you had needs and desires.

Boundaries are not walls. They are energetic and emotional expressions of needs and desires. We all have them, we all have a right to have and feel our own needs and desires, making up our boundary energy.

In the past, someone else’s energy boundaries (exploding, limiting your expression, minimizing your needs, etc) were hurtful, and you may have vowed to have boundaries that hurt others.

So when someone pushes back against your boundaries, the inner child still struggling with the wound of boundary trauma judges that you are hurting them, and forces you to play that role.

It’s time to release those old emotions and create new ways of expressing needs and desires so your boundaries can be strong. Please contact me if you want to know more about the healing process.

10. DISSOCIATED BOUNDARY

Sometimes no matter how much work you do on boundaries, the moment a topic you struggle with pops up (like money, or ending sessions on time, or someone’s expectations), you find yourself completely losing yourself.It’s like paralysis, or leaving your body and going into a total state of numbness where thinking and reasoning are impossible.

This boundary boo-boo suggests the presence of an idea or belief so painful or against our core Truth that we literally cannot live with it. So our consciousness leaves us until this thought is gone.

Dissociating Boundaries around money or client interactions is one of the highest costs you’ll pay. Not dealing with the situation seriously slows down or stops income, piles on late fees, and closes the door on new financial opportunities.

If you have a pattern of dissociating boundaries when the topic of money comes up, please get help immediately. You don’t have to struggle with this alone.

Boo-Boo Symptoms: You totally check-out. Maybe a sense of anxiety or panic in deep center of the body, with an overall paralysis or heaviness in the body or pressing down upon you.

It might feel like trying to move through water. Sounds may be muffled, and time may slow down.

Emotions are generally difficult to pinpoint, if felt at all. Depression may coincide with this state, especially when prolonged.

Energy Bandage: The process of healing this boundary boo-boo can be long or short. The key is self compassion.

There is likely a subconscious stream of criticism for why you can’t be present and just deal with this going on, because the longer a dissociation boundary pattern continues the more frustrating it becomes.

The source reason for the boundary dissociation protection/coping mechanism needs to be discovered and healed before the boundary can be strengthened.

Please work with a trained energy mentor/spiritual conselor who works multidimensionally to help feel safe enough to untangle the problem without dissociating. It doesn’t have to be a scary or frustrating journey!

I offer these services and am happy to chat with you about your specific situation. Please request a free 30min consultation here.

SO WHAT NEXT?!

Now it’s time take steps to heal your boundaries.
You don’t have to keep paying for every boo-boo that happens!

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Calm Chaos with Affirmations of Safety

Calm Chaos with Affirmations of Safety

Pretty words and affirmations seem useless in the midst of a storm.

Yet when applied consistently, Affirmations can be a rock to cling to, and a light to follow out of the darkness.

Chaos and emotional turmoil are common in our everyday lives, and they can seriously cause low energy, confusion, boundary issues, and out of whack intuition.

But the storm doesn’t have to suck you in.

You can learn to use the power of the storm to fuel your positive intentions. You can clarify your intuition and hone your gifts, embracing the storm as a powerful cleansing.

This is especially important when using powerful Affirmations of Truth. Affirmations have the power to transform every aspect of our lives by igniting and drawing forth our best qualities.

Where most people get stuck is the storm of emotions that Affirmations reveal.

Repeating an Affirmation of safety when a hurricane is rattling the windows would make anyone feel frustrated or disbelieving – the Affirmation and the feeling of the situation are quite opposite!

Yet the Affirmation is simply revealing the emotions that hold the external situation in place. Fear feeds the hurricane, and the cycle keeps spinning.

This is as true for an actual hurricane as it is for the storm of a breakup, or tornado of old family patterns playing out yet again.

The key is to be more stubborn than the fear/discomfort.

Every time it rears its head, simply repeat the Affirmation with as much certainty as you can muster. You are practicing being stronger than the storm with your peace of mind. This is how we make Miracles.

I read an article this week, where a prominent spiritual leader said that Affirmations are dangerous. And to be honest with you, I agreed with him.

His claim is that focusing only on the positive causes us to avoid feeling all of our emotions. If you focus on Affirmations and ignore the feelings that surface, you certainly are stirring a recipe of disaster.

The power in Affirmations lies in their ability to REPLACE the feelings that aren’t True. All of our emotions deserve to be felt.

In fact, emotions cannot shift and transform UNTIL they are felt!

The underlying cause of any storm, physical or emotional, is a judgment of feelings. That judgment starts building a pressure until it is released.

Affirmations actually give us an opportunity to release the pressure and disperse the building storm of energy, emotion and confusion.

By giving us a powerful Truth to cling to, we can be certain that the storm of emotions, judgments and stuff we’d rather ignore will NOT suck us in.

As we continue repeating the affirmation through the storm, the emotions move through, the energies release, and our Spiritual connection returns.

No matter what your personal storm is at the moment, a few Affirmations of Safety will help calm your mind and body, allowing your Truth to reveal itself and calm the chaos. Here are a few of my favorites

I AM safe wherever I AM. 

Where I AM, God is.

Nothing can alter my Infinite, Eternal Truth.

There is no problem without a solution.

The Universe is my reflection.

I AM calm and safe, now and always.

God did not create chaos, so it cannot exist. 

I choose to see Truth in place of all chaos, now and all ways.

I like to practice my Affirmations while walking along the beach, or moving my body through yoga poses.

It’s a great way to clear some of the emotional energy that may be blocking the Affirmation from “settling” in the body.

The more you cultivate a sense of safety in the body, the eaier you can Affirm you are safe in chaotic or frightening situations.

With fear reactions calmed, the creative and intuitive parts of us can act with confidence, working with our Guidance to solve problems with ease + magic.

What personal storms are threatening YOUR sense of safety?
Tell me in the comments below, and I’ll send you a bit of Reiki and Affirm you are safe, cared for, and Divinely Guided!

Hi there, my name is Isis,

the #UnicornGodmother of Spiritual Mentors. 

I have mastered the art of f*cking up, and I'm an expert at energy magic (aka Reiki). My superpower is taking the aftermath of a terrible idea and making a miracle out of it.

The only thing I love more than transforming my own piles of unicorn poo is helping bada$$ rule-breaking women slay limitations and elevate their lives!

I talk to Angels + Quantum Jump into my Future Self on a daily basis, and I would love to help you embrace your Unique gifts and make your life MAGICAL!

Welcome to my YOUniverse!

29 Symptoms of Eclipse Hangover… and the extremely simple ‘cure’

29 Symptoms of Eclipse Hangover… and the extremely simple ‘cure’

How many of these symptoms do you have?

  1. Abnormally sleepy or tired, difficulty staying awake.
  2. Physically exhausted or weaker than usual.
  3. Feeling heavy, like your legs weigh 1,000 pounds.
  4. Unexplained sadness or emotional outbursts
  5. Dizziness or confusion
  6. Brain fog
  7. Difficulty remembering common words
  8. Lack of appetite
  9. Extra appetite
  10. Sudden change in dietary tastes
  11. Feeling like you’ve had a dream you can’t quite remember
  12. Insomnia
  13. Waking at odd hours in the night
  14. Seeing recurring numbers on the clock
  15. Restlessness
  16. Extreme amounts of energy
  17. Overwhelm
  18. Thoughts on loop
  19. Feeling of “prickles” on the skin
  20. Unexplained rashes or skin sensitivity
  21. Cold + Flu symptoms
  22. Headache, especially in the sides of the head
  23. Nausea, particularly in the morning and at bedtime
  24. Digestive discomfort or diarrhea
  25. Panic attacks
  26. Anxieties or fears you didn’t have before
  27. Want to avoid people and crowds
  28. Extra sensitive to light/sound
  29. Frustrated or angry, unusual outbursts

 

If you are experiencing more than 3 of these symptoms right now, you may have an ‘Eclipse Hangover.’ The Solar Eclipse, beyond being magnificent to watch, did something to our energy systems, even if we were nowhere near the Totality.

Friends of mine in Australia reported waking up in the middle of the night (for them) at the exact moment of Totality during the Great American Solar Eclipse. WHAT?!

Solar Eclipses are powerful portals for energetic ‘Solar Codes’ to download into our consciousness, as well as our physical bodies, assisting us in our awakening and empowerment journey. It’s a GOOD thing, I promise!

Here are the most common reasons for an eclipse hangover:

  • You received all these HUGE energies, and your system didn’t know what to do with it, so now you’re feeling FRIED. Overwhelm, confusion, dizziness and exhaustion are the symptoms of a short circuited energy system. Time to ground that energy down, baby!
  • You’re an empath, so you feel the energies and emotions of EVERYONE who just “woke up” with this wave of Solar Codes and is going WTF just happened?! It feels like your own awakening all over again, and you probably don’t like it at all! You’ll probably be ticking off every number on the list above, because you’re feeling everyone’s symptoms on top of your own. YIKES! Time to reverse that magnetism.
  • You’ve been giving someone or something power over you. Whether you were aware you were doing this or not, the contract of disempowerment ended with this eclipse, so you’re free now. It’s going to feel WEIRD and probably scary too. Anxiety and headaches, nausea and digestive discomfort are probably going to be your biggest symptoms.

These particular Solar Codes are designed to awaken within us ALL the Light of Divine Sovereignty. No longer do we need to look to a ruler, a religious figure, president, or any other leader than the Truth within our hearts that we receive through our intuition, and enact with our brains and bodies. WE are the savior we have waited for.

Each one of us is ready to be the Divine Co-Creator of our lives. This means we decide what we want, and we trust we will receive it, exactly as we asked for.

It also means that we will begin to look at what we are asking for, and choose more and more from love than from fear. We will begin to surrender the final decision to our Infinite Self… Source/God/Goddess/Universe, to upgrade our request at every turn. And we will cultivate a sense of Trust we have longed for since before we had words for it.

This is all going to shake things up for us a bit, as we are used to asking for what we think we are allowed to receive, worthy of receiving, etc. etc.

So your Eclipse Hangover?!

It’s the combination of all your requests to the Universe that aren’t in your highest good, coming back on you. Not to punish you… just the effect of your choices.

Not so different from a night at the pub.

So here’s my super simple, easy peasy Energy Hangover ‘Cure.’ Ready?

1x Guided Chakra Clearing Meditation – FREE Download

1x Happy Outcome Intention – “I dedicate this day to a Happy Outcome.”

1x Statement of Release – “Everything in my way, Cancel, Clear, Delete!”

1x Divine DNA Activation – “I command my Divine DNA to activate fully NOW!”

Take one of each daily for 7 days or until symptoms resolve. Dosage may be increased to twice daily if desired. 

 

There you have it! My super simple Eclipse Hangover ‘Cure.’

What do you think, will you give it a try?

Tell me in the comments below!

Hi there, my name is Isis,

the #UnicornGodmother of Spiritual Mentors. 

I have mastered the art of f*cking up, and I'm an expert at energy magic (aka Reiki). My superpower is taking the aftermath of a terrible idea and making a miracle out of it.

The only thing I love more than transforming my own piles of unicorn poo is helping bada$$ rule-breaking women slay limitations and elevate their lives!

I talk to Angels + Quantum Jump into my Future Self on a daily basis, and I would love to help you embrace your Unique gifts and make your life MAGICAL!

Welcome to my YOUniverse!

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